What should i do with her?
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I met her in a place where i render my services and get paid in the end. It turned out that we started chatting on several occasion and soon before i realize it, we were getting acquaintances. She asked for something serious and that means we had to take things more seriously than it was at the time.
Surprisingly, at about 2:00am on February 29, 2012, after few minutes of chats on the phone, she asked "will you take me as your girlfriend?" without more ado, i said "Yes" (not any serious thoughts though). I just realized that i cant cope with her and i don't want her hurt or depressed. i really need to end it as fast as i can, but i don't know how. what can i do or say to her? please respond.

Well don't hurt her feelings boy! I you are not willing to make such a step with her, you better dont get her feelings hurt!
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Say that you have a lot going on in your life right now and while you like her I don't want to be in a relationship right now and I don't want to ruin our friendship.
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You should probably tell her as soon as possible, in these type of situations, every second is wasted time, both for you and for her.
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oh no, don't hurt her feelings, its a bad thing to do
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Look, tell her in the most gentle way possible. You can't avoid her getting hurt, but she'll get over it. Also, don't you dare text her this, break up with her face to face.
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There is no good way to break up with someone and there are no words that will make the situation easier or less awkward. But, if you know that you don`t love her the way that she wants you to then let her know. Yes, she will be hurt and she will cry, she will hate and probably curse you but at the end she will be grateful because you told her the truth. The more you postpone things the worse it will get so tell her as soon as possible.
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I'f you don't want to hurt her, you should explain her as soon as possible that you don't feel ready for such a step. Tell her you don't want to hurt her feelings but you cannot lie to her. Good luck!
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Pepper McGee
Explain to her in the nicest way possible that it was a rash decision and you need to rethink it, as soon as you can. She'll likely be hurt but she'll be worse if you wait.
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