I can't bless my friend who will get married.
   
tulip
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One of my best friends in my company will get married soon. But I can't ever be happy for her, and instead, I can't help wishing that they’d separate. She met him at a party, and I was there. He was a nice guy, young and seemed to have much money. I knew I liked him when I spoke to him. But after that, my friend began to talk with him much more often. One month after that party, I heard that they were going to get married.

She may be prettier than me, and everyone likes her. But I'm younger than her by three years. Men like younger women, right? I think I still have a chance to marry him. What should I do?

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tinkytoo
Why do you think you could marry him? Did you date? Do you even know him? Sounds like a bit of sour grapes to me. Just be a good friend and be happy for them.
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who
Doesnt matter if you are yonger
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sophie
you should be happy as long as your friend is happy
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sunshine
just leave them alone!
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tulip
I can't be happy for my friend! As I said, I liked him first. She should have asked me if she could marry him. That's what mature people do, isn't it?!
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Shogun
don't give them attention , it is not a big deal
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Zimy
If you love him then it is necessary to say to express to prove to tell that I Love You. So keep going.
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Jessie
If it was meant to be between you and him then it will happen. Otherwise stay out of the way and be happy for your friend. Your time will come. Be patient.
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Tripper
I think you've missed your chance. Everyone likes something different in their partner not all men like younger women just like not all women like older men. Even if thinks didn't work out between them it would be very awkward to date you're friends ex fiancee I think it's time to find a different guy.
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Kiko
honestly, you should be happy for them. it's obvious he wants her more than you. if you were a good friend, you would be happy for them.
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not_a_pug
Do not get into that. Obviously, he liked her more. even if you do try something to separate them, the guy will always hate you since you'd be the one guilty
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Vera
Why you think you could marry him? Sorry to say this, but obviously he is in love with your friend. Although you met him first, he felt in love with her. Try to meet someone new and don't think about your friend and her boyfriend
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tulip
Did you read my comments? She kind of stole him from me. Like Zimy said, I need to tell him that I love him. I'm the one who has the best chemistry with him.

Don't criticize me. I need a practical advice.
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Chippi
If she is intimate friend, please your fingers back. There is plenty men in the world and I am sure you will find the best one for you very soon!
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Ismael
You sound jealous. Why would you think you could marry him? You didn't even have a relationship. I'm sorry to say this but you seem a bit unhinged. This is VERY odd behaviour and you should seriously think about why you are having such strange thoughts. Be happy for your friend!
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vvv
this is wrong thinking
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Sheena
Regardless of how much you may like him it is best not to interfere with your friend's fiance.
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type username!
It doesn't sound like you know him that well...
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leelee
I did not see any reason in this post you can't be happy for her except you are jealous.
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ABI
Just talk to the friend. That is what part of being a friend is-honesty
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allealle
find someone else
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Miry
I think you shouldn't do anything, let them be happy. You will find the right guy for you,trust me, cause if he chose her, he wasn't right for you anyway.
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Jassy
I would say just stop talking to him because it's not worth losing a friend.
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dingo
just let them be...find someone else. maybe he doesnt like you enough.
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niky
wait for few days you will find yours
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Pugsly
Just because you liked him doesn't mean anything would have came out of it. You should have said something to her when they first started dating. If he wanted to be with you then he would be...sounds harsh but things happen for a reason. She's your friend so you need to realize that this is happening and be there for her.
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Mavrikwoman
People fall in love with the person that has the best fit with them. If that's not you, you would not have been happy anyway. Find your own love interest.
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Sissi
you didn't even date the guy... if he loves her, it won't matter to him if you're younger than her, that's for sure. Just be happy for them and move on ;)
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Misty
It really does not matter if you are younger. From what I understand men like older women. Sounds a little to me like you are a homewrecker and a bit of a whore ;(
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Ann
You need to realize there are plenty of fish in the sea and this is probably just a phase!
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tom
if your friend it s happy you should be you too
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Kitty
Let them do what makes them happy, that should make you happy.
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Mystemornings
It's best to leave it alone, she didn't do anything wrong even if she beat you to this.
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Pepper McGee
I think you should just try your best to get over it. The mature thing to do is to bless them anyway; you'll see in time that it is best that you do this.
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Kris
I doesn't sound like you even know the guy and this is pretty much mostly imagining how you two might have hit it off if only. Be a friend, find your own guy and be happy for her.
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